PMO Solutions For Couples that actually work!
PMO solutions for couples with Certified Sex Coach and Certified Freedom Model Coach Stacie Ysidro based in St Petersburg Florida. Virtual coaching sessions, online resources, scientifically proven research, community support and professional guidance. Non-12 step method, non medical methods to solve your addiction to porn, masturbation, orgasm and sex addiction. Allowing couples to recover from any breaks in trust, feelings of rejection, lack of intimacy and energetic disconnection.
Start with a complimentary 15 min phone call to see what options will work best for you.
What is PMO?
PMO is the latest natural human behavior to be pathologized as an ‘addiction’. Porn, masturbation and orgasm addiction, sex addiction is a SCAM! You are struggling with your relationship to adult content, orgasmic energy and sexual connection because of your beliefs and ideas not ‘addiction’. Your personal experience and beliefs are in conflict causing confusion, shame and guilt. I will help you put an end to this once and for all with The Freedom Model.
Increasingly, couples and individuals are seeking my help from what they believe to be addiction to sex, porn, masturbation and orgasms. Noticing they are spending more time, energy and emotional investment into their fetish/habit than they would prefer to. Feeling a disconnection from their partner. Experiencing ED and low or no arousal with their spouse. Relationships are suffering, families are being torn apart and it does NOT have to be this way!
PMO Solutions that work
The key to solving your PMO issues are in your interpretation of your experiences and what you have been told to believe about pleasure, porn, masturbation, orgasm and sex. Using the Socratic method, Cognitive behavioral education and The Freedom Model.
Our culture and society tends to moralize and pathologize what brings us pleasure. Interestingly enough pleasure is subjective based on your experience, what you have been told, not told, what you have seen or not seen. In addition to our religious, cultural, socio-economic and family beliefs contribute to our understanding and expression of sexuality and relationships.
You can not solve your sexual issues by compartmentalizing, shaming, hiding, restricting, denying what brings you pleasure. Therefore, we must INTIGRATE sexuality into the wholeness of the self.
Integration of our sexual selves is a process involving the mind, brain and the body! As a Certified Sex Coach I offer packages and sessions that include somatic, body based techniques, to help couples move towards intimate connection and new ways to experience arousal and pleasure.
Access to adult content had risen to all time highs. Presently many countries and states have reduced access to adult entertainment material and people are feeling it! These measures taken by the government do not help anyone. Studies show limiting access makes something more desirable!
Example:
Objective: age requirement laws
Subjective: how we interrupt this law
A percent of my clients who are seeking PMO solutions have stopped cold turkey or significantly reduced their consumption/engagement in fear of the new ID requirements. Increasing their guilt, shame and anxiety. Even reporting symptoms of detox and believing in withdrawal.
Some clients do not see the ID requirements as a deterrent and continue their habit.
Interpretation is subjective. We can not change what objectively is. However, we DO have control over our interpretation of the objective. If what we are believing is causing struggle, guilt, shame and conflict it is a sign that you need to re-evaluate your beliefs and ideas. When we remove guilt and shame we can start to get honest with ourselves and our partners about what is going on. I help you critically think through the attitudes, ideals and beliefs in a non judgmental, confidential space.
Is PMO and Sex Addiction Real?
PMO addiction is not real. Sex addiction is not real. Love addiction is not real.
The belief in addiction is real. There are many people struggling with and suffering from, the belief in addiction. Our society has been indoctrinated into this belief system for over 80 yrs. Since then Addiction and Recovery is a MASSIVE BUSINESS. Bid money maker!! Consider: When we tell people they are sick, broken, morally wrong , have no control over their thoughts or actions and will NEVER get better, only worse. We have years of evidence of this.
If there is no addiction then what is the PMO solution?
How do I change this behavior that is causing me so much pain, suffering and pleasure?
As a Certified Freedom Model Coach I will guide you through deconstructing the beliefs that you are powerless, unworthy and hopeless. You will regain your mental autonomy and free will through the removal of the guilt and shame preventing you from honest assessment of your problems. Gaining awareness of new options and choices for success based on your positive drive. Treatment for porn addiction does not have to be a lifelong struggle! Contact me today to get the information you need to move forward with your life and reignite your relationship.
Visit the Freedom Model Website to get more information on PMO Solutions coaching curriculum and download the app. Then Schedule you call with Stacie.