What is Sex Coaching, Erotic Coaching, Erotic Education ?

What is Sex Coaching- Erotic Coaching, Erotic Education

by Stacie Ysidro

There are many ways to say Sex Coaching. In today’s climate we have a situation where if you use the word sex some people get very upset. I have started using the phrase Erotic Educator, Erotic Coach, I have seen others use intimacy coach, love coach and many other  variations…I have a coaching, sex coaching and sacred sexuality foundation I work from so I can give you my definition of Sex coaching or erotic coaching and erotic education as it applies to me…..

Coaching is a non medical, non-judgmental, learning and experiential process that helps to create healthier, more fulfilling lives and get the results you want. The coaching process will help you define and clarify where you are currently at and what you want  different moving forward- your goals. Coaches partner with you in your journey, help you create/manifest, sustain authenticity and live your optimum life. We have no agenda except to assist you on your journey as defined by you. Coaching is about assessments and action plans, not diagnosing and treating. We believe that you have the answers within yourself, you just need a time, space and tools to figure it out.

Sexology is  sexual education, the study of what we think and feel about sex; in addition to what we do sexually. Sexology is the education and experience of sexuality.

Sex coaching is a blend of sexology and coaching. It focuses on all things sexual: thoughts, feelings, energy, behavior patterns, expression of energy, orgasmic energy, communication, connection, education, health, relationships. We consider influences from our  community, family, spiritual, religious, socio-economic environment, while fully acknowledging your own personal desires (free will) and perspectives. Sex coaches uses assessments to identify your present state/situation and help you clarify your intentions, then create actions plans to achieve your goals. Sex Coaches educate and advocate for your sexual health, well-being, pleasure and rights. Helping you create: action plans to achieve your goals, accountability and celebrating your successes along the way. We can answer questions about sexual health, sexual function, pleasure, consent, sexual expression, relationships, communication, dating, sex and aging…Don’t worry you are whole and complete just as you are! Sometimes we just need a shift to something different than what we are experiencing at the moment- it’s a part of growth and maturation.

Healthy sexual self expression is an important part of  individual health, fulfillment and successful relationships. You must include sexuality into your self care regimen. We get to places in our lives when we get stuck in a rut or pattern that is no longer serving our greater good; we may just be bored and want something different than we had before. There comes a time when we we need to increase our sexual intelligence; lean more about ourselves, our partner and how we merge together to create orgasmic bliss.

Sex coaching is an empowering process that gives you permission to learn,  explore , overcome sexual challenges or concerns and enhance your sexual journey in a renewed positive way….how you are in the bedroom shows up in other areas of our life as well! Heal one and the others will follow.

It is my intention to be compassionate, objective and fully present without  judgments or agendas; creating a confidential space for exploration and transformation according to your aspirations.

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